My earliest memories of BDSM were dreams of tying up girls at an early age. Where these images came from I don't know, but for me it felt like something ingrained into the fabric of who I am.

In 1997 I became part of the public community under the scene name "Sir XTC" and started attending play parties at Nob Hill and various other clubs as well as the Sportsman's Social.

In 2001, I left he lifestyle and after 6 years I realized that I could not be happy without the lifestyle as an integral part of my life.

In 2007 I returned to the public scene to find some of my old friends as well as many new people that had joined the lifestyle since I had gone. Upon return I found my tastes in play had changed and grown. My new zest for the lifestyle has found me looking to push the boundaries of not only those I play with but myself. The urge to grow and expand my knowledge and limits has become the core of who I am as a Dominant. Always seeking new ways to better myself and not only make myself a better Dominant but also a better human being. My old scene name seemed to also be outgrown and so "Dagger" was born.

I met my slave, pez, and collared her November 15, 2008 at the Lair de Sade.. She is my prize possession and the light and love of my life.. She has rekindled my desire to grow within the lifestyle and expand my knowledge to be the best Dominant I am possible of being..

I consider myself a "Jack of all trades" and Master of none.. other than my slave of course. I feel I am constantly learning in every aspect of play. Can one truly Master a form of play that has so many variances and subtleties? I strongly believe that variety is the spice of life. And the more options as to the forms of play I am proficient in, the more choices I have in the paths I can take my partners to get to where they wish to be as well..

In 2010 I was honored when I was asked to become a member of the Monarchs. A Het-Male Dom Brotherhood, based out of the Lair de Sade. The club/dungeon I have called home since it first opened.

In 2011, I was once again honored with being nominated by the local community in the TRSNetwork.com BDSM Pride Awards for Man of the Year as well as a Lifetime Achievement award nomination.

I'm a strong believer in education within the lifestyle and always willing to help those who seriously seek to better themselves. If anyone would like to contact me I can be reached on Fetlife.com under the screen name BryanSir,

Tradition, Order, Honor & respect are more than just words to me. They are the standard to which I live my life.

I will not compromise my standards for anyone.

Love me or hate me.

Tradition, Order, Honor, and Respect.